In the middle of last week, our eldest boy who is 6 asked if he could write a letter. We of course went along with this and queried who he was writing to. He said with some surprise, " Shane Williams of course!"
Through discussions with his mates in school, he was well aware that it was the aforementioned rugby legend's last game for the Ospreys, and so he felt it only right and proper to thank him for being brilliant and to wish him well for his final regional game. He subsequently wrote to Shane 'bach' (as we call him in the house - I was a blind-side, after all) in his best Welsh; this being the first letter he had ever written.
Around about the same time last week, a fellow twitterer/blogger who I know asked me why I had a link, describing myself as an individual with 'an iffy knee & a curry fixation'. He appreciated the latter (I grew up in Swansea) but thought that the former was some sort of sophisticated hint of masonic links - as if. The truth was that I had crippled myself playing rugby after one unfortunate but horrific tackle and that in truth, I was lucky to walk again without a permanent limp.
Bizarrely, on the same day my wife attended an awards ceremony in Cardiff, where she met many outstanding sportspeople from across Wales. At the event, she met a very famous former rugby player and after he had mentioned that he had retired injured, she suggested that the WRU had looked after him. He replied, " Good God no, the WRU only look after themselves."
This is the dilemma we face as parents, because we want our 3 boys to try as many sports as as they can and have the opportunity to play the ones they really enjoy. Rugby union is inevitably going to be an option for all three, but I have very mixed feelings after what I went through. I was an average player in a very good club who when crippled at 23 years of age, went from training 6 days a week in my spare time to wondering what the hell I was going to do with my life. I actually spent another 5 years having operations and setbacks, before accepting that not only could I not play again, but that I should never run again if I wanted to put off a complete knee replacement.
When I was playing, it has to be said that the support given to players with severe injuries was non-existent, unless you were high enough up the tree to be considered worth the expense. I am not at all clear if that position has changed but with the professionalism of the sport and the great success of the current Welsh side, one would hope that the WRU realise that parents want to know that if something severe does happen, that they will be there to support and advise.
Getting back to the mercurial Shane 'bach' Williams, I have run out of superlatives to describe this man, not only as a supreme rugby player but also as an ambassador for the sport and Wales in general. When we suggested to our eldest that his letter could have made all the difference in Shane getting that last minute try to seal the league victory, the look on his face was of pure happiness. That sort of inspiration is absolutely priceless for the WRU, in the ever more competitive world for the spare time of our sporting youth. I hope that the likes of Shane Williams are used to inspire in the future. However, I also hope that the WRU take seriously the concerns of many parents, who would love to see their children play the wonderful team game that is rugby union, in the knowledge that there is support there if there is an unfortunate accident.
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